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Struggling with ending a 25 years marriage
I am new to this forum, and my decision to end this long marriage was a difficult one. I was dealing with a neglectful husband both in our relationship and in his relationship with the children. My son who is 16 is the most vulnerable in this situation. My daughter w...
Views: 239 Replies: 4
Last Post: Jun 27, 2021 3:27pm
by Laurence T. Vern...
by Laurence T. Vern...
A question
If anyone on this forum might know the answer
I am the one that filed for divorce after 34 years of marriage recently (he knew that any cheating will destroy our marriage)
Because he cheated on me and he does not want to admitted
When I asked him about his emotion...
Views: 139 Replies: 0
Last Post: Jun 26, 2021 1:04pm
by Elizabeth
by Elizabeth
Beginning the separation process
Hi guys, how do you deal with a non communicative husband. No talking at all for five months. Won’t discuss separation. How do I handle this pls. I’m emotionally exhausted with it all.
Views: 240 Replies: 5
Last Post: Jun 26, 2021 9:09am
by El
by El
Career and earning loss
It's next to impossible to sustain a job in this volatile situation. I am always stressed about child care and he keeps wrecking my support system. I totally am out of wits at his indifference. It's almost like he's advancing his own career at my expense and here I a...
Views: 124 Replies: 0
Last Post: Jun 26, 2021 5:59am
by Misstery
by Misstery
What do I do?
I'm 19. I got married almost 5 months ago and I realized that it was a mistake because of how he's treated me in the past and there are still some of these issues today. He's controlling. He used to tell me what I can wear, who I can talk to, he's called me a ***** a...
Views: 199 Replies: 5
Last Post: Jun 23, 2021 9:57am
by WhOamI
by WhOamI
Love
My 64 yrs old controlling husband Has been talking to a female friend which is my best friend and her husband died 2 years ago she is also on her 60’s
(He has a lot of love to give ) He was actually telling her this phrase he also said to her that he has feeli...
Views: 148 Replies: 3
Last Post: Jun 22, 2021 7:09pm
by Sandra
by Sandra
Divorce stipulation not fulfilled 17 years later regarding home.
I have never seen this question in years of looking. I hope you can help. I went through a contentious divorce over 18 years ago. My spouse had multiple affairs. I was the principal breadwinner. I was awarded the house for a sum of money. My ex got a substantial down...
Views: 157 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 22, 2021 4:53am
by Me
by Me
Don't know how to move on
My husband recently left me and moved in with another woman. I found out he was cheating several years ago and asked him about her. He denied it and wouldn't talk about it. When he found out I had proof of his cheating, he stopped but continued communicating because...
Views: 177 Replies: 2
Last Post: Jun 22, 2021 4:44am
by Me
by Me
Newly Separated with kids- Venting
Hello,
New to the forum. My husband decided 2 months ago he was moving out. Our marriage has been rocky for a while. Covid didn't help but he has been an absent husband and father for a long time. He works too much and has always been involved with us only when it w...
Views: 151 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 22, 2021 3:37am
by Me
by Me
SCHOOLS & Joint Custody
My divorce was finalized 2/21. I moved shortly after that and had to sell the marital residence. I moved out of the area. My ex and I have joined r custody on everything. I want to enroll our boys in schools where I live and my ex is making it VERY difficult. His res...
Views: 149 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 22, 2021 3:26am
by Me
by Me
Father expecting too much?
Hi all this m new to this forum but have been separated for 13 years. We have 19 year olds and a 22 year old. For Father’s Day my children asked their dad if they could spend Father’s Day lunch with their dad. They live with me nowadays. He said that was...
Views: 141 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 19, 2021 12:30pm
by Nancy
by Nancy
62 years old filed for divorce
I decided to filed for divorce after 35 years of marriage a 1 year ago the divorce process still not over .the reason I filed for divorce is because my ex never agreed with my opinions or what I had to say or comment to.... he always needed to have the final word if...
Views: 184 Replies: 3
Last Post: Jun 18, 2021 12:12pm
by Val
by Val
I feel like I'm dying
My husband asked me for a divorce about a month ago, 5 weeks before our 9 year anniversary. It was out of absolutely nowhere. I thought we had a great marriage. We rarely ever argued and had overcome so many obstacles in our time together. We moved from Texas to Penn...
Views: 267 Replies: 4
Last Post: Jun 17, 2021 5:45pm
by Kat
by Kat
Is it cheating ?
I am planning to divorce my husband of 35 yrs of marriage because we are having some marital problem and we cannot communicate with each other because we always ended up fighting even more and when we disagree (we are never in the same boat)
I do know that he has be...
Views: 185 Replies: 2
Last Post: Jun 16, 2021 9:34pm
by Olga
by Olga
Do you need emotional support or help?
Hi ladies!
I read through all of your stories and completely relate with your pain and grief. I went through a divorce 3 years ago and know how hard it can be daily.
I am now remarried to a wonderful guy and have found hope in my life again. It was a journey and I...
Views: 158 Replies: 0
Last Post: Jun 16, 2021 10:06am
by Lindsay
by Lindsay
This is it.....I am done
Hii All,
I was so worried before i was visiting here that will someone will able to understand things which i am feeling....bt without. Thinking much i proceed further because i really wanted to....Its been more than 1 n half year in marriage starting of it was fi...
Views: 342 Replies: 4
Last Post: Jun 15, 2021 8:36am
by Nickie
by Nickie
Going through divorce (military)
Husband and I have been separated but we’re in the works of getting back together and him coming home but a few weeks ago come to find out he’s gotten another girl pregnant and I don’t know what to do. (He already has two kids none by me) I want to...
Views: 141 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 14, 2021 6:52pm
by Jyo
by Jyo
New to forum
My 19 yr old daughter and I have recently moved into a new apartment. My soon to be ex-husband has his own place now also. Married 21 years. Been fighting divorce for a few years. He has different goals in life now. I have mental health challenges. Worried, confused,...
Views: 139 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 14, 2021 7:11am
by Kelly
by Kelly
I am not happy but the idea of losing the “family” is killing be
Being together for almost 10 years have a 6 year old daughter and we went into a big fight 2 years ago come back and thinks we’re just not the same I didn’t fell like I wanted to be with him anymore but I try for my daughter to make it work, my mom had a...
Views: 204 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 14, 2021 7:10am
by Kelly
by Kelly
Does it happen?
does couple get together after a long marriage and divorced even if it was not a good marriage ??
Views: 150 Replies: 0
Last Post: Jun 12, 2021 3:19pm
by Margaret
by Margaret
Does it happens ?
I have been divorced for 2 years and I am fine being alone
My marriage lasted for 33 years
I am 58 yrs old and I am scared to see my ex because he was verbally abusive , controlling and he has anger issues and he will not forget anything bad that happened in his li...
Views: 117 Replies: 0
Last Post: Jun 12, 2021 3:16pm
by Margaret
by Margaret
Son having trouble excepting divorce
My son is 6 years old and his dad and I separated when he was 3 years old and got divorced. He goes to his dads every other weekend and seems to be having a hard time with the transition back and forth. When he comes home he acts out or acts different. He was at his...
Views: 132 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 10, 2021 12:54pm
by Kelly
by Kelly
Why???
Hi Everyone in this forum
I got divorced a year ago after 25 years of marriage
I have not talk, no seen my ex since I filed for divorce , only
By text if it is business related nothing else
When he have a business related question he or I will text once in a whil...
Views: 142 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 10, 2021 12:46pm
by Kelly
by Kelly
Suicide
I am scared that my husband of 38 years will suicide after I filed for divorce
What should I do ????
He is an narcissistic person And controlling
I had enough of putting up with him after a long marriage
I was thinking about his well being that is why I stayed th...
Views: 186 Replies: 2
Last Post: Jun 6, 2021 6:07pm
by Simone
by Simone
Feels sorry after ex got sick
Why I feel sorry for my old aged ex after I filed for divorce over a 1 year
He has been sick lately and he has no one to take care of him
He was mean and emotionally Abusive to me through out my 30 years of marriage and I don’t want to see him or care for h...
Views: 127 Replies: 4
Last Post: Jun 6, 2021 4:39pm
by Kelly
by Kelly
A lot of am I doing the right thing on my mind...
I've waited four long years to find the courage. Now the time is here. Why do I feel so guilty, I've done nothing but treat him the same way he treats me. Guess he doesn't like that feeling?
Views: 159 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 5, 2021 5:02am
by Kaz
by Kaz
husband wants a divorce
together for 16 years total. went through school, training together. married for 6 years with two small kids. one with mild autism. all of a sudden husband wants a divorce. nothing I do can change his mind. I am devastated, he has moved on but I have no clue. please...
Views: 301 Replies: 6
Last Post: Jun 3, 2021 1:01pm
by SONIA
by SONIA
50/50 custody and relocation
My ex-husband and I divorced five years ago. We have 50-50 custody no one pays child support, we are to split everything 50-50 (time, financial, decisions) There was no residential parent because we both stayed in the school district. My ex-husband has moved out of s...
Views: 142 Replies: 2
Last Post: Jun 2, 2021 12:54pm
by Diane
by Diane
Should I move?
I am a 50 year old divorced mom of 2 teenagers. My daughter just graduated high school and my son other has one year left. A little over a year ago I met the man of my dreams but lives 10 hours away. We talk, text, video, and try to get together every 4-6 weeks eithe...
Views: 148 Replies: 3
Last Post: Jun 2, 2021 6:15am
by Kelly
by Kelly
Afraid of my ex husband
Hello
I filed for divorce about 6 months ago because he threatened me (I am 56 yrs old and he is 65 yrs old )
We have 3 adults sons (none of them wants nothing to do with him) after he threatened me (Even before they did not have a father and sons relationship (my...
Views: 133 Replies: 3
Last Post: Jun 1, 2021 10:55pm
by Carolyn
by Carolyn
Divorce decree and parenting plan
When divorced in 2018, we agreed to exhusband claiming kids on taxes and if I got a job then I'd claim the youngest. Also, exhusband was to have children every other weekend, shared holidays, half summer vacation, and Wednesday night to Thursday morning. He has not d...
Views: 124 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 1, 2021 12:41pm
by Zara
by Zara
Husband cheating
18 year marriage
Married young
Husband is cheating
Calls it plan b and he says he’s gone
Still love with him
No bank account
No drivers lisebce
Views: 195 Replies: 1
Last Post: Jun 1, 2021 5:49am
by Kaz
by Kaz
I feel like I'm dying of heartbreak
I literally feel like I'm dying of heartbreak.
My soon to be ex husband is so mean, hurtful, and cold after love bombing me for months just to try to get me back.
So here I am starting over emotionally trying to heal.
Constantly sick, riddle with anxiety as soon a...
Views: 252 Replies: 3
Last Post: May 31, 2021 9:07pm
by Obrz
by Obrz
Ex found somebody else Already
Hello
My name is Monica
I am 60 years old (Reading all this forum letters I thought I was the only elderly lady going through a divorce)
I filed for divorce last October with an narcissistic personality
Ex husband and he was insisting me to go back to him in...
Views: 177 Replies: 0
Last Post: May 30, 2021 11:43pm
by Monica
by Monica
Afraid of my ex husband (I am the same person from the previous text I sent yesterday)
I just received a text from my ex husband
He texted to me Saying this (just to let know I had an emergency surgery
On my right hand I fell an got a big cut in the palm in the tendon when I was changing the water bowls for the dogs I know you don’t care but wa...
Views: 165 Replies: 5
Last Post: May 27, 2021 11:18am
by Diane
by Diane
My parents are getting divorced and it’s not going well
Hi I’m Anna, I’m not a woman getting a divorce so I apologize if I’m overstepping by being here but I’m not sure what to do. My parents are getting divorced and it’s not going well. My mum has had at least 2 different affairs since me an...
Views: 140 Replies: 2
Last Post: May 24, 2021 12:39pm
by Anna
by Anna
Reality Check
You do realize the overwhelming majority of you women are eventually going to end up broke, miserable, and alone. The reality is most of your exes will eventually recover both financially and emotionally from the trauma of divorce and be much more happy and stable wi...
Views: 179 Replies: 3
Last Post: May 24, 2021 8:14am
by Kelly
by Kelly
I feel my life is over. I don’t know how to start over now
I’ve been sick for almost 10 years. I have 13 different conditions including fibromyalgia, chronic back pain, chronic inflammation and i am a heart patient.
I always wanted my husband, but for the past 5 years, I’ve needed him to take care of me. He wa...
Views: 343 Replies: 8
Last Post: May 24, 2021 8:09am
by Kelly
by Kelly
Scared and lonely
This is my first divorce, I'm scared, not sure what to do
Views: 243 Replies: 2
Last Post: May 24, 2021 7:56am
by Kelly
by Kelly
How did you tell your husband you wanted a divorce?
How did you finally get the words or courage to tell your husband you want a divorce? How did he take it? When did you know you wanted a divorce and what was the last straw that broke? Did you eventually file as well?
Views: 204 Replies: 2
Last Post: May 24, 2021 7:11am
by Kelly
by Kelly
Twice rejected
So I've been recently told that my soon to be ex husband doesn't want to be friends at least. Even though we both agree that our break up wasn't really a bad one. He says things like he doesn't want to lead me on. Anyway I feel twice rejected how should I let him kno...
Views: 156 Replies: 1
Last Post: May 24, 2021 2:03am
by Alicia
by Alicia
Should I say Thank you ?????
Hi
My name is Merline my divorce is almost finalized
:))
My question is ?
I have not talk to my ex for almost a year and not seen either after I filed for divorce only by text If needed . He sent me a text today to check my car parked outside because he left me a...
Views: 155 Replies: 4
Last Post: May 22, 2021 10:14pm
by Merline
by Merline
Should I be alarmed or is he just upset?
Ok where to begin…. Me and my husband are separated but were in the process of trying to work things out. However one day at his store, I was responding to a text that my sister had sent me. He comes over and sees the text I received and sees that within the te...
Views: 347 Replies: 2
Last Post: May 21, 2021 11:35am
by Alicia
by Alicia
Father brought up to son idea of stepfather to adopt him. Not sure what to do?
My 11 year old son and his father have not gotten along for a while. It began after he started dating another woman he later ended up marrying. Honestly this woman is awful and I am not saying that because I am his ex, she really is the evil stepmother. At some point...
Views: 98 Replies: 1
Last Post: May 19, 2021 10:51am
by Kelly
by Kelly
out of state full custody
i have full sole and legal custody of my daughter. i live in Virginia. He has not seen his daughter in 4 years. she is 6.
He recently got sober, talked to therapist and now there is a Reunification process in place which ****** me off. The Reunification therapist wa...
Views: 178 Replies: 1
Last Post: May 18, 2021 8:20am
by Launi Sheldon
by Launi Sheldon
ProperComm stops DV - Free to DV Victims
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Views: 113 Replies: 0
Last Post: May 18, 2021 8:17am
by Launi Sheldon
by Launi Sheldon
I'm 46 having to start over very bitter
My spouse has had a porn addiction that's been like a punch in the throat. We been married 16 years and every time I think its behind us he is doing it again.He always is gonna change.He never admits his wrong to me I have to catch him. I'm tired of being hurt over h...
Views: 326 Replies: 1
Last Post: May 18, 2021 8:17am
by Sherry
by Sherry
Grey divorce
Help I’m going through a separation after a 21 year marriage were both 60. My husband who is a sex addict has cheated continually I’m finding out he’s into bdsm men escorts and now poly lifestyle. He has become fit and sees himself as 30. I still de...
Views: 188 Replies: 0
Last Post: May 18, 2021 7:58am
by Sherry
by Sherry
I need advice on divorce
Hello,
I am wanting a divorce, I am 63 years old and have been married for 18 years. I am so very unhappy in my marriage. I wake up every day wanting it over. There is no intimacy. We never do anything together ever. I have been losing weight and keeping in shape...
Views: 191 Replies: 4
Last Post: May 18, 2021 6:32am
by Mary
by Mary