I'm basically going through the same thing, except it hasn't gone to court yet. The settlement states I get only about 1/3 the value of the house, even though I'm entitled to half. Reason I'm going along with it is because if I don't, he threatens to problong the divorce and tells me I "can't fight his family's money", which is 100% true. I don't have the money to keep paying my lawyer, but his family has mega funds for whatever he wants.