It is really tough. Feels like being thrown under the bus. It has helped me to stay close to The Lord & to try to understand it in terms of being a Christian & that oftentimes doing what is right is sometimes looked down upon. If you can continue to feel good about your decisions, your choices, this will serve you well ongoing. Jesus is our Savior & HE IS OUR SPOUSE.
Big Hugs.

Amen to that, JLVR. We are never alone.

Susan

Susan, that's right. With every blow, loss, that comes in my life, whatever it might be & we all have them at times, it's almost like this shattering of the familiar, the piecing together with more pieces, as during loss we are scattered. Then it's enlarging the view, but with God & together with others, seeing more clearly through spiritual eyes. The ACTION of the HEART (LOVE) grows, englarging. GOD IS LOVE.
It's about ACTION, LOVING & always with OUR SAVIOR, JESUS CHRIST!