My ex lives with OW. She has two kids and she thinks she is my children's stepmom and has the boys calling her that and calling her children their stepsisters. UGH If he would only sign the divorce papers and just move on my life would be so much easier. I have learned to take advantage of the fact that I am his wife legally. I throw it in his face all the time. He'll say something stupid about his relationship with OW and my reply is " I'm still your wife jackass" He gets ****** and hangs up. He keeps telling everyone that it is me refusing to sign papers. Yet my lawyer is the one who send HIM the papers. He lives on lies and denial.

He lives on lies and denial? We aren't married to the same Jackass, are we?

Could be...the way my ex lies who knows He may have several wives lol

LOL Lisa!! Yeah, the BS never ends with him. And now he's not even talking to me. I haven't spoken a word to him for over two weeks! His sister was visiting from out of state at the start of last month, and it was just wonderful to see her - we have always been close (which, of course the OW resents the everlasting crap out of that relationship!), and I was so peaceful and full of love by the time she went home that I had to share a little of it with him. So..I called him up and said how wonderful it had been to see her and talk to her, and spend time together, and that I hoped he would be able to get down to visit her sometime this summer like he's been trying to do for years. I kept it all light, and happy, and warm.

Honestly, I have no friggin idea if I broke him, or what! LOL!