LOL Lisa!! Yeah, the BS never ends with him. And now he's not even talking to me. I haven't spoken a word to him for over two weeks! His sister was visiting from out of state at the start of last month, and it was just wonderful to see her - we have always been close (which, of course the OW resents the everlasting crap out of that relationship!), and I was so peaceful and full of love by the time she went home that I had to share a little of it with him. So..I called him up and said how wonderful it had been to see her and talk to her, and spend time together, and that I hoped he would be able to get down to visit her sometime this summer like he's been trying to do for years. I kept it all light, and happy, and warm.
Honestly, I have no friggin idea if I broke him, or what! LOL!