Don't beat yourself up too badly- love is complicated, and we can only do our best. In fact, I'm sure you're a wonderful woman or you wouldn't have two men so captivated. :)

You should maybe consider talking to a close friend or councilor. You shouldn't have to go through all of this in secret. That sounds stressful. Hang in there, and good luck!

-Mary
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