You deserve better. My ex- husband thought verbal abuse is the way you treat women, that the way he treated me was only over critical or normal. We went to counseling three times. The last time he didn't want to talk or set goals and when we did talk it was in circles or he said really ****ty things. Your husband sound like he has the same mentality and will never change. get out and do it fast.

well we are going to counseling next week is our second visit. I'm going to try but I'm also preparing myself just in case it doesn't[ work out. I went to counseling with my ex husband and the counselor said in the first visit we really shouldn't try anymore so I left him. thanks for your advise