Thank you kindly for your response. I have 3 children and an ex myself (my fiance has two children) blending families I knew wasn't easy but, I didn't know things would be this difficult,however each day is a new day and we are making great strides and meshing very well. I'm so glad I found this site as I'm sure it'll be beneficial to me in more ways than one. My fiance and I both have divorce lawyers we can consult over any legal matters. I'm lucky enough that my ex and I are on good speaking terms and he knows I won't play games and allow him to throw punches. My fiance however is the much more timid type that allows his ex to walk all over us and doesn't stand up to her. What she does and doesn't do(including things she was court ordered to do)now will have a lasting effect on mine, his, and OUR children's future. I need him to open his eyes and realize that.
any way, again I'm excited to have found this site.