Sky: My ex husband was diagnosed by his sister, a Doctor, as having Asperger's Autism, after the divorce, so my heart goes out to you. See if you can get a pro bono Lawyer through your local Bar Association or check at the local courthouse or Legal Aid place. You did not write here whether or not you have been married/divorced, but hope this helps. Sounds like the Dad is in denial of the diagnosis. Kathleen? Nicole?