Ask your lawyer if the TPO takes precedence and your ex will stay on your insurance. That's who will have to fight for you if he brings you to court regarding this issue.

Did you also put a TPO on him? That's what it sounds like when you said, "i agreed to consent to keep the TPO in place on him"

and he has custody of the kids currently?


Do all of those things (utilities, etc.) count if you're divorced? I could see why they'd be in place if you were still married. Again, ask the court that issued the TPO or ask your attorney (and get the answers in writing).