Sorry Jo - I have been divorced since 2009, but I still remember that day well also. He told me the papers were coming, but they were delayed and their content was very nasty. He's a sick person with Asperger's Autism, which is not his fault, I know, but if I had known what it was and that he had it, I would have respectfully declined his proposal of marriage. I am grateful I had a kind and experienced divorce atty. (someone who did family law) who had a home office and didn't charge me a ton. Best wishes.