Earlier this week I received a text message from my husband telling me that he has found his soulmate while working on a project in another city this summer. There have been a lot of not-so-good things leading up to this but this is the final straw and when he returns back in a couple of days, we are planning to file. I feel so completely alone and destroyed. How long does the really intense pain last?? I have never experienced this type of grief. I know there is no specific answer but I feel like reality is starting to sink in and I don't know if I can exist feeling this way much longer...

Find a new man and move on with your life. The rope is out if your neck. My name is Todd from Utah in USA. I was having similar problem with my wife. She cheated on me and finally quit to do her runs conveniently. I am single man travelling around the world to recompose my life. I really felt you lost. But it will make new turn in your life. Just keep searching. You can email me tony.claudio@yahoo.com. I will like to know you more

Todd

Hi, my name is Jenn and I am going through something similar. I have been telling myself that these things happen for a reason and that there is someone out there that is so much better for us. The thing is i do not understand why it still hurts so bad. I know that you will get through this all just fine. Keep you head up and hopefully everything will be alright.I have not told my story yet but just wanted to comment on yours first. Stay strong!!!!!!!