Jo: I would advise you to get a Lawyer or Legal Rep. and get him to move. Perhaps he could rent a room or go to an off season motel until he can move into a house or rent a studio apt. Tell the Lawyer he has been drinking and isn't helping around the house. Drinking in front of you and the kids can't be good. Both Lawyers kicked my ex out because he had shoved me in the past and they thought he could start argueing with me. Close all joint accounts and get your own. A Lawyer would tell you to do this.