Dear Jane, Please get an attorney! If you were married 22 years and never worked you will have a more difficult time getting employment in the future without some skill and education. With that length of marriage you may qualify for more money and more time. Don't give away the farm please. The lawyer most likely used the scale for your state. Why reward a man who betrayed you and give up what might be rightfully yours. Don't let him rush you so you lose anything so HE can get married. Please use your head!

Thanks for your inputs. Many people around me are telling the same thing. I didn't want to go that route because of my sons. Don't want to hurt their father, but by way of thinking I will be the one getting hurt. He left for LA last week and he is not back yet. No news, nothing. I texted him this morming, will see if he replies.