Tired: I did not move, but did not receive my paperwork stating the divorce was final so my Lawyer got it at the courthouse and sent it to me. My ex filed in 2008 and stalled for nine months to avoid alimony (long story). Since you do not have money for an Attorney, I recommend you contact your local Bar Association to see if there is anyone doing free legal work ("pro bono") or talk to someone at a local abused women's agency or seek Legal Aid for low income people in your community. Hopefully it is mistake of some kind since the Judge stated you were divorced especially since there are no assets and no kids involved. Make sure everything in the divorce agreement was addressed if you had one.

Thank you for your feedback, I did try our local bar association and it seemed to complex for the person. That was many years ago though. I think all you share is valid. I just have to start advocating for myself again. I got burned out, but I am determined to get this finished this time.
Again Thank You simply for responding.