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I feel the same way, and I've only been married for two years. I don't want out, but he does. But I have a child that I don't want to lose. I just try to focus on what God wants,and know that this isn't the end of my life. No matter what happens, no matter the struggles, life does go on. I couldn't imagine 30 years. That's insane. I will be praying for you.