Katie I am sorry you have to go through this tough time. Might be time to find some new friends. I haven't had to experience it the same way you have, but no matter how you look at it, divorce hurts. Even when it's over it still hurts. For now I would focus on yourself. If you want to further your education focus on that and working to save money. Good for you for not going out and drinking. See the world. Surely you will meet someone when the time is right. For now use this time to heal and to find yourself. Sometimes the only friend we have is ourselves, but you know yourself and what works best for you. Also don't be afraid to branch out and go out. Look up local groups. Sometimes there are local social groups where you can meet people. Look in your area for a singles' group. As for your friend, it's her loss. Don't let her negativity weigh you down. It's time to move forward.