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My life just turned upside down

Three days ago I overheard a conversation that I wish I could forget. My father was talking to a woman on speaker phone and he didn't hear me come up behind him. They were in the middle of phone sex, even worse was the woman was talking about my mother in part of her fantasy. I left before he noticed and he still doesn't know that I heard him. I had to tell my mother. This isn't this first time he's been unfaithful. My mother was willing to work things out with him but he went too far this time. She wants to speak with a lawyer before she confronts him, so for the past few days we've been pretending like we're one big happy family. It's tearing me apart. I know it's much worse for my mother so I'm trying to be as strong as possible. I don't know how much longer I can last. I see the heartbreak in her eyes as she puts on a smile and cooks him dinner. He's asking her what she wants to do for her birthday next week, what he doesn't know is he'll have the divorce papers by then. He is my father and I will always love him, but I don't want to look at him right now, I'm so disgusted. He cheated on my mother and he also cheated on our family. I don't know what's going to break me first, the sadness or the anger. I can't believe this is actually happening.

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Re: My life just turned upside down

You should butt out of the relationship between your parents. They can work things out for themselves. Telling your mother about such pecadillos is only going to hurt the whole family.

And is there a difference between phone sex and, say, flirting?

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As painful as it is to have overheard what you did and know what you know, you need to be quiet about it. It belongs to your mom and dad and there is nothing you can do, but be supportive.