Brandi: My ex stayed out from the start of the marriage later going to strip clubs and Hooters. We were married for 21 years. I am divorced now and happier with someone else who does his best to put the time in with me.

So, did you make him pay alimony and take his pension?

Yes I went through the same thing. This past Tuesday my husband left me and my son I wish I could tell you what to do but I do know how it feels and when you're not alone just hang in there

Yup. He acted sweet and caring and then was gone one day. no contact. Just things moved out and and a note for me. Never heard from him again. I am emotionally ruined. He acted normal all while plotting behind my back to leave. He always acted very caring to me.