so ill get right to it. my spouse and i have not had sex in 10 or more years. i moved out of his room 3 years ago. I have always bought my own cloths payed for my own phone. We had 7 kids but are all grown now. He gives me no physical, emotional or spiritual help. im drained and want out. over 30 years of marriage and i feel alone.
Bea,
I'm so sorry for your sadness. I was married for 25 years to a man who took me for granted and mistreated in many ways. I've been divorced for over a year now and the pain is easing and slowly I'm starting to learn who I am. It took me many years to say "I want a divorce" but I finally did. Take one step at a time.