Deirdre
I responded to your message a little while after you posted but I see it didn't go through. Time does heal wounds. You can't rush healing, it happens a little at a time. I have been divorce a little over a year now after being for 25 years. I have eaten dark and milk chocolate through the year and it has helped A LOT!!!! I totally agree with you about allowing EXs relation privileges. I would never allow myself to go back to a person who has caused me sooooooooo much misery. Great advice.