I recently asked him to leave. His reply was 'no, hes not going anywhere, I'm a liar, fraud and hes not going until he get his 10 years'. He feels that me being a childminder for 10 years I never worked and lived off him so he is now now living off me. This is his reason why he has stopped paying bills and mortgage. I have all my evidence of my earning and paying my tax. I am mentally drained but my children/grandchildren give me strength. What can I do to get him out of the house.

Both Lawyers (solicitors) asked my ex to leave. He had shoved me in the past. Tell the solicitors he is verbally and financially abusing you. Since there is a mortgage on your home he is not paying, then all of you will have to leave as you know. Is there help available where you live for women and children who are being victimized like there is here in the States? Welfare? Job training? Government Housing? Food pantries for people without money? The Judge is not going to be amused when all of this goes to court. He sounds very bitter.