Last day (july 21 2016) my husband surprise me with a divorce papers. Never had an idea? We never fought on third party. Only reason he gave me is he wants to be happy this time around and i am not included. We been married for 23 years, we have a daughter who is 22 years old, graduated from college last year, we also have a son who is 16 years old who will be in 11th grade this fall.

There's no sign, he is basically the same. I felt betrayed, so alone, so sad who is basically crying all the time.

Nanette: So very sorry. My ex left after 21 years. There were small signs. He may have another woman. I would seek a consultation with a divorce attorney. A lot is at stake in a long marriage. Best wishes.