Laura: There are many other things that have led up to me wanting to get a divorce. He gets angry about ridiculous things, never wants to spend time with my family and I, and never helps out around the house. I have to deal with all of the finances as well as deal with things that come up. I work all day and go to school full time, while he works security at a mall. We got married when I was young, three years ago. People and things change in three years. I moved closer to my parents about two months ago, and he had the choice to come with me, but he didn't because he said he was allergic to my parents dogs. But if it was the other way around and he was the one that left, there's no doubt I would have gone with him.
We've been in our new place for a week and it seems like everything he does annoys me. I've gotten so irritated with him. But I can't tell him I want a divorce. He just started a new job and moved two hours away from everything he has. I just don't want to be married to him anymore.

I think you need to get over your loss before you decide what to do with your marriage. Give it some time, see your doc or a phycologist. It is so easy to walk away, harder to stay and work it out. Whatever you do, make sure it is really what you want. Life is short and finding someone you love is so hard. Good luck x