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Exes new girlfriend

Hello all, my situation is this. My ex husband has a new much younger girlfriend. As a result of this her behavior towards me is very immature. Actually her behavior towards everyone other than my ex has been mean spirited. I have made several attempts to be nice and friendly so, that we can all get along. Well, long story short she has done the complete opposite. I am now at a place where I no longer desire to try anymore. Now, my ex wants me to give it another chance. I'm over it. Is there a way to have her not attend the accomplishments of my children.. Ie; graduations and awards ceremonies. I'm fine with him and her doing their own thing and I mine to celebrate the accomplishments but, the actual ceremony I don't want the negativity on what is supposed to be my kids moment.. Is there anything I can file

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No. Unless she is a danger to you or your kids, there is nothing you can do.

Ignore her.

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Nashiek: I agree with Wendy. I have been divorced for 8 yrs. My new guy's ex was hanging onto him even though she broke it off 13 months before. Her kids were involved (ages 10, 12 and a teen) so I it go for a few years until the kids got older and were working/with friends and then revealed the details of her meddling. Hope it gets better for you when the kids get older. I would sever contact with ex and girlfriend when kids are grown except for special occasions.

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Hi Nashiek, I can relate. Although I might not have the answers to your question. I believe your ex will choose to have his ex along with him to the events and etc.