Nashiek: I agree with Wendy. I have been divorced for 8 yrs. My new guy's ex was hanging onto him even though she broke it off 13 months before. Her kids were involved (ages 10, 12 and a teen) so I it go for a few years until the kids got older and were working/with friends and then revealed the details of her meddling. Hope it gets better for you when the kids get older. I would sever contact with ex and girlfriend when kids are grown except for special occasions.

Hi Nashiek, I can relate. Although I might not have the answers to your question. I believe your ex will choose to have his ex along with him to the events and etc.