cutebunny: I would continue to meet with the other man and baby and see where it goes over time and to keep him in your life for the sake of the child, even if it ends up only being visitation on his part. When you meet with your Lawyer or Mediator, talk with them about it and get their opinion. If you do not have a Lawyer, Family Lawyers are best with this type of situation. Set up a formal child support agreement and visitation schedule in writing which is legally enforceable.