To spend 25 years raising your kids and taking care of a lazy a** man is a definition of what a strong woman you are. He is a fool and you don't deserve to be with a man who doesn't understand how to appreciate a woman that puts everything into her marriage. I was married to a woman who was actually in love with another woman.
you can email me if you need to talk to someone sometimes.
chris_james583@gmx.com
Take care Martha.
Chris.
What to do next...respect yourself.......It is time to take care of yourself. This is traumatic; perhaps a therapist would be a good idea, and contacting an attorney.....to begin with.
This wasn't a husband...but a leech....what a terrible betrayal