This may not be what you want to hear. You say you would do anything to save your marriage. You also say he is realizing now the things he should have done differently. But what you don't say is anything about admitting your own culpability in the relationship difficulties. Relationship issues are rarely a one way street and in western society it's become easy to blame men. Until you take responsibility and acknowledge your part, you won't grow. It sounds like he has already acknowledged, learned and is moving on.

If you are not yet divorced you might look into a program by Mort Fetel. I don't work for him nor do I get anything from recommending him (you can find his program under Marriage Fitness). I would recommend this for anyone who is considering marriage or their marriage is on the rocks. I only wish I would have found it sooner, then maybe I wouldn't be divorced now. I am not giving up yet on reoonnecting with my ex, and I have to say this is the hardest thing I have ever gone through. They say God only gives us what we can bear and I have learned one thing. It is both your faults but blame only pushes you farther apart. Get the free emails from Marriage Fitness to see if it's for you. Bless you and hugs.