Every single argument and fight we have is over money. He claims he is broke and asks me to do everything. I just cant deal with him anymore. I told him about one hour ago that I don't love him anymore. I mean it.

I am so sorry you're going through this. I, too, don't feel any love left for my husband of almost 4.5 years. I'm trying to gather the courage to do what's long overdue, but I've been trying for a long time (years) and I feel weak. I need strength.