No need to worry about money. Women hold all the cards in divorce court because judges and laws are biased in our favor. Likely here's what the judge will give you as long as you ask: alimony, child support per the state's calculation, half the marital assets, half his retirement savings, and he'll have to move out of the house. He'll probably have to pay off all the main debt (mortgage). You'll be able to live off his paycheck and can stay at home and not have to work. Try to get a domestic violence protective order against him as soon as possible - that'll be the nail in his coffin. Just don't get re-married because that will jeopardize your alimony, although boyfriends are fine. Time to cash in on this creep and make him pay.