Christy: Finances are the hardest things to deal with after divorce. I suggest you get whatever help you need from disability to welfare to help from churches, public housing, the food pantry. I still shop at thrift shops. I went to the local food pantry when my ex left since I was only working part time. I also suffer from depression and have only two relatives in the area, both senior citizens. Best wishes.

You have my absolute sympathy but how on earth did you end up in a position where you relied so heavily on a man to take care of you that you only had 40 dollars left???

I see so many women in your position and its so disheartening.

I really hope that you're able to get on your feet so that you never find yourself in this position again. Best of luck to you!