Yes we are overseas as well. The counselor said their was hope but he also refuses any type of help. Says he's made his mind up and even moved in with a friend. We don't have children (big stress. I have pcos a infertility diesease) but we have 3 dogs who have been acting out and upset since he's left. We haven't even filed the seperation paperwork yet so that he can file the early return of dependents so I can go live in the states with his parents (they have disowned him during this since he's got mental issues) I have to even rehome my youngest dog since his parents said I can only bring 2 :( I have no one here at our base. All our mutual friends shunned me like I have the plague. I'm literally alone here with no one that knows what I'm going through (stationed in germany)