I've been separated for almost a year and my narcissist ex is refusing to be an ex and leave me alone. This has been an abusive relationship verbally, emotionally,psychologically and financially....I'm trying so hard to find my way out but the manipulation continues to eat me alive even though we don't live together but we have a child which keeps go in the loop. He won't accept that we are done and is constantly pushing that boundary and using our child we an excuse to stay around me... I'm so tired this has been going on for far too long. Any words of support or advice would be appreciated....

I am sorry you are going through this.....I feel like though it is me in the future writing your post because my husband keeps suggesting that maybe in the future we would get back together. I hope it gets better for you....I am just at the beginning of filing for dissolution....long road ahead yet.