I was married for 25 years and decided not to change my last name back to my maiden name. I had my married last name longer than my maiden name and it was a part of my identity. I was asked so many times if I was changing my name back and when I said no people assumed I wanted to keep a connection to my ex but it was not true at all. It is my last name and just because my marriage was over, I wasn't.
Brandi

I was surprised when I found out this wasn't automatically part of the divorce but I was OK with it because I never even met my biological father & didn't care to go back to his name either. Someone did tell me they thought I was trying to keep a connection to him when I didn't want to run out & change it but, luckily I don't care what people think. I would however rather keep the same last name as my kids instead of going back to my father's last name that I've never met. If I do go through all the legalities of changing my last name, which I still might; I would change my last name to my grandma's maiden name. She meant a lot to me & I know I meant a lot to her & my physical features are a lot like my maternal 2nd cousins. (My grandma's brother's kids).