Julie: I would think so, you didn't go into details about what you need. Check the divorce laws on line in your State. Most alimony today is of a restorative nature unless you are unable to work if that is what you are referring to.

Yes absolutely he owes you. The system is built around diverting alimony and child support (if you have kids) to women. Plus you should get his retirement and half the marital assets. Women can often live off their ex husbands for years. With welfare, medicaid, and food stamps, there's really no need to work. Any family law attorney worth his salt will get this for you. If he's ever hit or pushed you, make sure the judge knows. If you are still living together, perhaps you can manipulate him into getting mad and bruising you. Take pictures and file a police report to get it documented as soon as possible. Judges eat up domestic violence accusations and will throw the book at him.

Yes! Get a picture of net assets. Each state is different but here in IL, you are able to have half of the assets collected during marriage, meaning retirement, savings, and investments. Since you were married for over 10 years, you are also allowed half of his Social security w/out his permission or knowledge. So if you stayed at home. . . you'll still be eligible. Most states have a guideline for child support and alimony. I would highly recommend seeing a financial adviser who will help you collect a financial picture. Many firms don't charge for a consultation.