Renee: You can either get family counseling, wait and ride it out until your son is grown up, see if he can live with your ex or consult with a Family Lawyer about divorce if you feel you feel you and your husband are not in love anymore. I don't know why you would be afraid to leave since you have a job - make a list of the pros and cons of leaving.

Girl, I am you and you are me! Going thru the exact same but with a daughter about to enter high school. Soooooooo how is it going?