My ex's birthday is this month and I know I should let my three uear old call his dad. I have no problem with that.
Every time it's a holiday my ex wants to call and talk to me, not our child, and I don't really want to talk to him or lison to him complain about anything and everything for an hour.

How do you deal with an ex who wants to talk (vent/cry) to you but not his child.