Jocelyn: A person who cannot take care of themselves cannot take care of a baby - no unsupervised visits, either. If he insists on trying to take the baby someplace, call the police. I am sure your family does not want him taking the baby, either. I hope that your family can put their money together and help you find a Family Lawyer who handles divorce. A person like this will not get parenting time until he is sober for a long while.
My dad says that I have such a strong case that I may not even need a lawyer. We are separated so my son is with me all the time. If he wants to see him, I am there at all times. His parents are enablers so I don't trust them around him either. They are the ones giving my husband an endless supply of money for whatever he pleases. He buys alcohol with those cards and they don't question him or take away the cards. They know he is an alcoholic and they still give him money. It's so frustrating.