Normal Woman,
I'm soooo happy that you found the person for you after your first marriage didn't work out. I have been divorced for two years and feel it's so important for me to work on myself. I feel the same as you about being self sufficient. It is my hope that I have a loving relationship in the future but for now I am in the building stage of my life, I'm building myself as an independent woman. Thanks for your advice to the other person because it helped me too.
Brandi