Mine won't communicate or update me and is afraid of my spouse's attorney.
There are special circumstances in my divorce but my attorney has one way of doing things and I'm not allowed to know anything that's going on until it is done.
I've looked through the regular "find an attorney" sites but they only give recommendations from other attorneys or none about attorney's in my area since there is no large city for miles.
I'm afraid to write where I'm from because I've already been chastised for asking around.