My partner and I decided to separate almost three months ago, when he moved out after 9 years together and a 6 year old son. He is a porn/sex websites/cyber sex addict, liar, and leading double life with many many secrets. The issue is that I cannot stop crying and all the time I feel extremely sad and lonely and scared... I thought I could do this, but now I am not so sure.. it hurts so much, I see him moved on with his life - he likes it that way as I am not there anymore to stop him from his sex activities (sex websites memberships, dating sites memberships, online dating and online sex with women and men from craigslist, sex calls to name a few)... Yet, it hurts so much, my body is in pain, my heart is literally broken... I was hoping he would miss me and he would want to come back... he does not. At least he cares about our son... why can't I move on? How can I move on?? I live in an agony and it hurts...

Sonya: I am sorry you have been through this, but your partner has a problem and it's best to let him go from your love life and just talk to him when it concerns your child and other urgent matters. It takes time to heal and you are early in this.

I had a situation, when dreams about my ex kept me awake all nights long. One morning after one of such sleepless nights, I decided to change my life dramatically. I decided to start living for myself. I was enjoying being single, really. When I felt I was ready for new relationship, I joined http://www.cupid.com/usa-dating.htm and met a great guy there.

1 Accept the best option is to leave a guy who you are unable to see the future with him
2 Accept the best option as you are fear about your child future if you continue to be with him
3 Take of your health - healthy body = healthy mind...your child need you more now
4 Must stand up strongly now

Words are cheap unless supported by actions.
Do you forego the whole garden for the sake of one grass.
Life is about choices, please decide wisely.
God bless