For me it was when the alimony and child support checks started coming in. All the pain and loneliness went away. It's great to be a women. Don't know how men survive divorce when they have to turn over so much of their paychecks on top of no longer having a relationship.

Patricia: Sorry about this. It takes time to heal after a divorce, two years is the average. My Lawyer told me not to pay attention to my ex's personal life. I think that was good advice.