I'm a 43 woman who has been married 23yrs but as time goes by i grew apart from my husband and ended up having an online affair. I asked for a divorce. He doesn't want one but I do. I have become so unhappy and he doesn't see it. I will admit I am scared of what the future holds for me once the divorce proceedings start and end. How do others handle this, how do you cope and move on with no leaving on bad terms?