Oh Lara, my heart aches for you. I hope things get better. You are in my prayers. I'm hoping my husband doesn't lead me too far down that road. I do have a full time job so i will be able to support myself in some sense at least. My situation just unfolded last week so I'm angry with him and scared about the future at the same time. Thank you for all the information. It gives me some peace of mind we should be able to at least divvy things up 50/50. Take care!