Lara: I am getting support but he is fighting to lower it. He just quit his 2nd job stating he doesnt need it anymore. But he has been putting me in collections on a loan we have together. He is telling my oldest i have anger tissues and that and that she should live with him. He never ask for the baby unless it makes him look like more then a sperm donor. Also tells my oldest not to listen to me. He has issues and now is trying to brainwash my oldest..