Re: Do these emotional affairs last - esp on the job
Pink: I don't think emotional affairs last long - one of my classmates (now ex) husband was involved in one - more like infatuation - when one of the persons involved is married it often blows up! Take it from an over 50 woman who has seen some stuff. Best wishes to you. Can you ever trust him again if it's your husband, or, maybe it's you (don't mean to imply).
Re: Do these emotional affairs last - esp on the job
Hi there,
No it's my husband.
He turned 50 in November
Im 48.
I called him one day while he was in his way home from work bc I felt like sometjg was off. I said are we ok. He said no .. I dint think I want this anymore.
I was flabbergasted.
As I struggled to talk to him about it I noticed he would keep his cell close.
I never check my details on my phone bill
Well I found the same number whereby I stopped at 360
I wasn't even done with a week of billing
He swears they are friends.
She works where he does. The same team.
I did see one day there was a call for over an hour when I wasn't home.
I could not see the actual texts bc of the iphone android difference but idk any "frornd" of the opposite sex I'm
Spending that much time with
He wanted his own billing. He now has it
Said me not saving money, him tired of doing dishes
Me on facebook etc. He's done and wants divirce.
Said he wanted out for years but stayed for kids
One a sophomore in college and one a frssan this year
I've felt bad about the finance aspect.
But truly never did anything malicious withoney.
Re: Do these emotional affairs last - esp on the job
Pink: I'm soon-to-be 55, not that it matters since I am close in age to you. My ex left when our daughter went off to college - wasn't happy for the last half of the marriage, threatened to leave 4 times, has Asperger's Autism (not his fault, I know, but he prefers to be living alone). My advice, if you would be open to it, is to get a consultation with a Family Lawyer. Sometimes the first visit is free.