So. IT is his Holiday weekend coming up and he has obviously forgot its his Holiday. We are currently back in court as he is wanting 50/50 whereas right now he has more like 20/80. Do I remind him it is his weekend. Do I take them and then have it be my fault some how when I mention it to my attorney? Anyone been thru this what was the consequence of keeping quiet and just keeping your kids. The benefit of course is you get your kids....
I am not yet divorced so I am not in this stage yet. I would think once the lawyers/courts are involved you want to be straight up. I would think its hard enough without having to remind him its his weekend, plus I would think having a lawyer do all your reminding would cost you more $. So I would send him an email documenting that it is his weekend and if he does not respond than you will be taking the responsibility of having the kids for the weekend. That way you are covered and the facts will not spin out of control. Keep the email short and factual. Hope that helps.