Hi Lynn, We haven't gotten to the divorce point yet but we're separated and have been since October. Not sure what's happening next. But this is the absolute worst holiday season I've ever spent in my life. I'm in South Jersey.

Hi Kathy... So sorry you're going through this. I know how you feel....even though every situation is different.....it all feels bad. I've been divorced for 4 yrs after 28 yrs of marriage. I'm 55 but I have a young attitude...if that gives you any picture of how I am :-) I do have a guy I date but I still am hurting and feel alone. I know I need friends....I don't have much in the way of support. I am a caring person and a good listener . Would you be up for eventually meeting for coffee or something along those lines ? Hope you can find some 'okay' times during these holidays...I know it's not easy. Lynn ps....South Jersey isn't far from me :-)