Hi Kathy... So sorry you're going through this. I know how you feel....even though every situation is different.....it all feels bad. I've been divorced for 4 yrs after 28 yrs of marriage. I'm 55 but I have a young attitude...if that gives you any picture of how I am :-) I do have a guy I date but I still am hurting and feel alone. I know I need friends....I don't have much in the way of support. I am a caring person and a good listener . Would you be up for eventually meeting for coffee or something along those lines ? Hope you can find some 'okay' times during these holidays...I know it's not easy. Lynn ps....South Jersey isn't far from me :-)